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Most Unlikely to Succeed
Written by Donald H. Whitehead Jr. 
(An exert) Most Unlikely to Succeed
My five siblings and I lived in a three family home that we occupied  with other relatives. We all shared one bedroom and my parents slept in  the living room. My mother was a lunchroom worker at our elementary  school. She later became a teacher's aide and then a licensed social  worker. She insisted that education was the top priority. This early  focus on education was a lifeboat in the sea of desperation that my life  would later become. My father, usually a very happy person, worked hard  to care for us. For most of my early childhood he worked two jobs. One  evening my father crashed his car into a tree. From the time of my  father's accident things were never the same. The accident disfigured  his face, leaving a visible scar. He became a tyrant. Our house became a  war zone. My grandfather, who was unwilling to ignore my father's  abuse, shot him. Even before the trauma and the abuse I remember feeling  different. I remember feeling lonely. At home I created imaginary  friends and my play-acting was so vivid that my poor mother had me  tested for sanity. When I left elementary school I went to Walnut Hills High School,  one of the top public schools in the nation. I didn't stand out because  everyone was smart. I also didn't fit in socially. Because of my  father's progressive addiction and unwillingness to maintain employment  on a regular basis we were forced to live in poverty. Most students at  school were from affluent families and I always felt that I wasn't as  good as everyone else. The growing dysfunction in my household began to  have a negative impact and I began to experiment with drugs. I was asked  to leave Walnut Hills High and for the first time I experienced  academic problems. My academic problems were not related to my ability  to do the work, but rather they stemmed from my newly acquired practice  of skipping classes. I take full responsibility for my actions, but I  place some blame on the teacher's strike of 1977 that allowed me to  perfect the art of skipping class on a regular basis.  In the next three years I attended three different schools. By this  time my addiction had progressed to the level of blackouts. I lived a  "Jekyll and Hyde" existence. By day I was the class vice president, the  prom king, most likely to succeed, a football player - I was even  selected to be "councilman for a day" in Cincinnati. After school hours,  I was an addict who had already tried almost every drug that didn't  require needles. I knew that this was not how I wanted to live - the  only problem was I just couldn't stop. 
 
 
Author, Donald H. Whitehead Jr.
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